PlayHimPlayHer

How it works

PlayHim PlayHer helps you say what you need to say when you'd rather not write it yourself.

1 — Tell us what's going on

Choose a category, answer a few questions, select your tone, and add any details you want included.

2 — We help write it

PlayHim PlayHer creates a message based on the information you provide. Review it, try another version, or request changes before continuing.

3 — Approve your message

Nothing becomes a Play until you review and approve the final message.

4 — Create your Play

Once approved, PlayHim PlayHer creates a private Play page containing your locked message.

Creating a Play uses one available Play from your account.

5 — Share it your way

We give you a private link. You choose how and where to share it.

PlayHim PlayHer does not independently send the Play to someone's phone number, social-media account, or email address.

6 — They open the Play

The recipient sees that you asked PlayHim PlayHer to deliver something to them and chooses whether to open the message.

Recipients can report a Play or block a sender using the safety controls available on the Play page.

Plays are intended for personal communication—not threats, harassment, stalking, impersonation, discrimination, scams, extortion, or other harmful activity.